The level of your personal development reflects not in how many women you've screwed, or how great your love life is, but in how happy you are able to keep without the both, amongst other things. How prepared you are to face the indifferent reality!
A nihilist would say: It doesn't matter in the vast universe whether you live or die. So die! An enlightened person would say: Yes, it doesn't matter in the least. That's exactly the point. Why try to change what IS!