When you stop working, it's not retirement. It's death
Retirement is when you don't have to work where you don't want to
Life is work, and work is life
Everything that happens is good. Or for good
It's either blessing. Or blessing in disguise
You either win. Or learn
There's no losing. Unless you choose to be a loser
If you don't speak and just let people talk comfortably about themselves while you keenly listen and observe, you can learn so much about humans it's amazing
Although most people derive their ideas from others without realizing, if you overtly state that you follow someone (like mentor) they would rationalize it to think you're not really smart, just a follower of someone. Even though you may be smart
Lesson in there
Travel is incomplete without spending A LOT of time talking with the locals of the place. Something I realize I should do more of going forward
Otherwise you're just a tourist, not a traveller
I can't imagine why a man would be interested in women's sports
If men play that sport, you can watch men for superior action
If it's a woman-only sport, well, are you a woman?
Unless, ofcourse, you want to see their panties, which is fine
Women take time to fall in love. Allow her the time to crazily fall in love with you, before you get too serious
Get serious about her too soon and you'll rob her of the adventure. She'll punish you for it
Few have understood this
When a woman rejects you, any reason she gives other than "I'm not attracted to you" is bullshit. So, rather than solving for her reason (which will repulse her more), move on and work on being attractive to women