Run from people who use upspeak. No matter how valuable their ideas, you don't want to listen to them speak
If you do, you'll subconsciously pick up their speech pattern which you absolutely don't want, especially if you're a man
If other men's success arouses negative emotions like anger, hatred and jealousy in you, you probably don't have what it takes to be successful
Looking at success should excite you, for now you know what is possible to achieve in this world