Unfortunate are those who get things handed to them without grind
They wouldn't experience the sublime happiness that comes from working for something and earning it
Not all poor people develop the same way (duh)
Some learn to borrow money from others and not return it, using poverty as justification to their conscience
Others learn to value money such that they can't keep someone else's penny and be at peace with their conscience
Sustained physical comfort is achievable only when you're willing to let go of mental comfort
Because that's what it takes to build a (physically) comfortable life
Mental comfort should never be the goal
That would be a death wish!
Pursuing wealth for comfort is self-defeating
The rich did not get rich by chasing comfort. They got there by going after challenges, which is the opposite of comfort
Comfort is a side effect of riches
Notice how the successful reject comfort by working ever more hours
How to get enlightened?
Steps
1. Confirmation bias & Cognitive dissonance - understand the hell out of these concepts
2. Realize that everybody is subject to these
3. Realize that you're not an exception
Boom!
How you feel when looking at successful people predicts whether you'll succeed in life
Jealousy, hatred and bitterness are loser's emotions
Observe and learn from them instead
As a man, you can not count on friendship of women
Women can't be good friends to other women too, let alone men. And no one knows this better than women
Women are not capable of friendship because they lack moral compass and agency
All they have to go by is their own emotions
Does she leave your place with more or less mess than before she arrived?
It's an important indicator of the quality of the woman
While she's at your place, is she enabling or preventing you from pursuing activities of your interest, things you do for your self-growth?
Sympathy for self-destructive people is poison for your mind
Let them destroy themselves, don't lose your peace of mind over it
If you spare your thoughts (and resources) for those fools, they'll take you down with them