It is better to say I've done it than I'm going to do it. First do, then talk about it
When I hear someone say I'm going to do this and I'm going to do that, I know they're likely losers. If they were serious they would be doing it already
Be the doer, not the talker
Life is nothing if not struggle. Do not run from struggle, embrace it. Sex drive is perhaps the biggest source of struggle and also the biggest strength. If you lose struggle, you might lose the very thing happiness and meaning sprout from. Be careful what you wish for
The best trainer is not the one who's most knowledgeable, but the one who can simplify the knowledge and explain at the level of the trainees
If you take 10 mins to answer a question that could be answered in 1, you're failing as a trainer
#CorporateTraining
People believe you not because you're telling the truth. They believe you because they want to believe you
Persuasion is about making people want to believe you
#persuasion
If it helps to be superstitious, there's nothing wrong with it. People who live thinking they know the truth are just as deluded
Life is too complex to figure out completely. Faith is a wiseman's hack
Comparing yourself to others is Goals approach (I want to be better than them). Comparing yourself to yourself from yesterday is Systems approach (I want to keep improving)
The latter is more conducive to peace of mind and works out better in the long run
Language learning pro tip:
Once you know the grammar and basic vocabulary of the language you're learning, start watching your favorite movies with audio in the language you know and subtitles in the language you're learning
Take advantage of the marvel that is Internet
Kids nowadays watch TV, handle smartphone and watch YouTube from the age as little as 3-5 years
They then start talking and behaving like adults
Kids who talk and behave like adults are not cute. They are fucking annoying pricks!
Kids must be innocent to be loved
Think "what if I fail" only once, just so you have Plan B
Rest of the time only think what you'll do once you achieve what you're aiming for
This will vastly increase your odds of success
The more you think failure, the more you'll attract it. Same goes with success
When have arguments ever really convinced others?
People don't change their minds outright upon hearing arguments. They might afterwards when they can conveniently think they did it on their own
Stop obsessing over perfection. Life is not perfect. Make peace with the fact that there will always be a few things in your life that need fixing
This challenge, in fact, is the essence of living. It's what makes it all meaningful, and fun if you have the right attitude
What if life was designed in such a way that if you only work on improving yourself, all your problems would automatically sort themselves out?
Great, no?
Good news: Life IS designed that way!
- Develop talent stack
- Read books
- Workout
- Keep style & grooming on point
-...
Through shifting of attitude when you constitutionally change yourself to thrive on challenges, you become antifragile
It's nothing short of a superpower
Smartphone freed people from TV
Then Netflix entered the smartphone
Losers gonna lose
#UninstallNetflix
It's not only about Netflix. Get rid of any app enabling binge consumption of entertainment
Most people don't have real (thought through) opinions. Their opinions are formed on-the-go
They'd commit to a position for the sake of conversation. Sometimes hold to it long-term (when convenient); most of the times contradicting themselves
Yet always sure of themselves!
People who have achieved something big in life, those who have gone from 0 to 1 by themselves, don't ridicule others for trying out new, bold things
When they mock you, call you idiot for doing something, take an IQ test. If it's >100, it's likely they're rationalizing to themse...
If you ever find yourself defending the company whose product you're using, your soul has been bought by them. You're a manipulated fool
You may defend the product you're using - and you may be wrong there too - but you don't know anything about the company
No. 1 step in getting the woman you love:
It's to remember that you CAN'T get the woman you love
If you're in love, it's game over! She won
Love is the pitfall there's no recovery from
Move on
If there was only one wise thing I can tell anyone, it is this: things would always work out well in the end if you firmly believe they will
I'm not religious. And it may sound spooky. But your mind actually creates your reality
Believe it
The best marker of your position in the dominance hierarchy is women's interest. When out with a group of men, if you're the one most women show interest in, you top the hierarchy within that group
Do what it takes to top this hierarchy. All other hierarchies are insignificant
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If you need a woman to complete yourself, you're not even halfway to where you're supposed to be
As a man, you have to be complete in yourself, and then have the goods to complete a woman
Things I say about women that enrage men:
- women have rape fantacies
- women love rough sex
- women are aroused when spanked
- women find it sexy to be called "my slut"
- women swallow cum
I feel sad for their girlfriends and wives
Most bad situations aren't as bad as your reaction to them
Practice viewing difficult situations as not-a big-deal and you'll save a ton of energy by not worrying unnecessarily
Over time this will strengthen your conviction that nothing is so difficult that you can't handle wit...
God is the best concept the human mind has ever come up with. Marriage (family) is the second best
Those who believe in these don't (have to) wonder about the meaning of life
Losers feel envy looking at someone else's progress. Winners try to understand what they can do to make themselves better
The time and energy you spend feeling envious of others (negativity) is the time and energy you could use to better yourself (positivity)
Positivity is the ...
A woman doesn't care for closure. When she's turned off, she just ejects. Learn this form them
When she consistently does things you don't like, ghost on her. Don't even explain
This will make her go mad vs. you explaining why it can't work out and shit
While breaking up on ac...
Everyday I look at my smartphone, marvel at the power of the gadget, and feel immensely grateful to be having it. For I would have been so backward, ignorant and probably in very bad shape without this tech. What a wonderful time to be alive!
And it's not just about smartphone!
In negotiations, you'll lose to an irrational person. Every single time
If life is about negotiating outcomes in one area or another, irrational people will come out ahead. And generally they do!
Realise the power of irrationality!
Consciously acting irrational is the next lev...
When you're around people you find incorrigibly stupid, rather than getting frustrated and calling them stupid, think about why they are the way they are, and where their beliefs arise from
Then you'll learn more about humans. You might also find they aren't stupid after all
Saying you're BORED is an insult to God. It's an expression of ungratefulness
The existence is full of wonders. Plus it's 2019! Seriously, you don't find anything interesting to think, do or look at?
Are you even alive?!