Deep down, and in the end, all a man ever wants is respect. Some don’t know it until they are self-aware. Some don’t ever become self-aware.

A self-aware man wants respect because he has realized that it’s an overarching need that a man has.

If a man does not respect himself, the woman will not love him. If the woman does not respect him, he can’t maintain his love for her. Respect precedes love, almost like it’s all about respect (and it is). But we hear it’s all about love (it is not). Love for men is bull crap. I know this is a bit too deep for many.

Love is for women. A man who thinks he wants love is either gay or hasn’t realized his masculine self. Women want love, men want respect.

A man goes to war for respect. He works out in the gym for respect. He reads self-improvement books and listens to motivational speakers for respect. He chases money for respect. He buys iPhones and cars for respect.

A man builds himself for respect.

Not all men deserve respect. Heck, nobody deserves anything in life. Everything must be earned. And I have no tolerance for men who cry about not getting love and care (because these pussies certainly don’t know it is the respect they need, not love and care) from others while not trying to be worthy of it.

What does a man need to do to become worthy of respect? Fulfill his masculine duty. Same as what a woman needs to do to be worthy of love. Fulfill her feminine duty.

A man’s masculine duty is to constantly build himself, and take care of society, starting with his parents, then wife, then family, then extended family, and then expend his resources for the larger good of the world. And keep building himself stronger throughout the process.

The moment a man loses this drive, he must stop expecting respect from others. Because respect is not owed to him merely for existing. Respect is for the masculine drive to be useful to the world—being the rock, pillar, and builder of society.

Lastly, for women who wonder why men fall out of love with them:

A man does not fall out of love because he sees more attractive pussy. Heck, a man doesn’t even fall out of love when he goes ahead and pounds that attractive pussy. For men, unlike for women, love and sex are two completely different things.

A man falls out of love with a woman only when the woman fails to fulfill her feminine duty, which is to respect the man for fulfilling his masculine duty.